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This Is Slowly Killing Your Dreams

– “I don’t have time to work out.”
– “I don’t know where I would fit that graduate course into my schedule.”
– “If I had more time, I’d definitely ___________ (fill in blank).”

Sound familiar?  I’ve been guilty of saying these at one time or another. However, we all have 24 hours each day, including Olympic athletes and the many others who’ve achieved the highest levels of success in their fields.

While it’s easy to jump to “Yeah, but…“, the truth is we somehow manage to find time for Facebook, Netflix and Pokemon day after day.  Yup – that time you’re spending online is chipping away at the time meant for achieving your goals. Mini-distractions in the form of viral posts, games, and live streaming are slowly killing your dreams.

In our defense, the world is busier than ever.

And there are no signs it’s slowing down. Currently, there are 205 billion emails sent each day. By 2019, that number will increase 20% (246 Billion emails)!

With IM, texts, and WhatsApp, communication is constant and the expectation is that response times will be instantaneous. Add SnapChat, YouTube, and Twitter, and it’s a wonder your SmartPhone doesn’t explode.

Although the benefits are palpable, attempts at “unplugging” usually fail.  Whether due to habit, FOMO (fear of missing out), or pressure to stay in touch, it feels impossible to disengage fully (e.g., “OMG! Did you see the Game of Thrones finale!?“).

But if you find you’re not making progress on your goals, it’s time to set boundaries. We choose how to spend our time each minute, and once spent, those moments are gone. Poof!

Try these:

Whatever your dream, “a year from now, you’ll wish you started today” (Karen Lamb). Don’t let another moment slip by without consciously choosing how to spend it.

Happy hunting!

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